Are you really doing this? I asked myself over and over. A couple more weeks of virtual school and being inspired by the idea of working from anywhere and not being restrained anywhere (even if being on a team mostly in Seattle, this was already the case). …

Here it is. This month would have been 15 years of marriage. The next post will highlight a little more where I am with some of this in a pretty incredible way. But I’ll just add this before reading about my divorce. It got better. A hell of a lot…

Since my shower thoughts that prompt most of these are now coming from a different place, one that’s single guy and not struggling to make something work, I’ve got a whole new area to write about. But I definitely don’t intend or expect to spend a lot of headspace on…

The views of Big Sur on our right made it hard to focus on where I needed to go and nearly passed it with Cai almost asleep next to me. I slowed towards our hotel destination on the left, pulling into a steep hotel drive that shared the view. Out…

This past week I had someone over and Cai was being obnoxious. Like, frustratingly attention-seeking and obnoxious. …

Hard times don’t stop when you’re healthy. The beginning of my journey to being a healthy person started with my physical health. At my worst my first inclination is as always a drink. That temporary relief from a soothing bourbon would settle me down and help me forget, for just…

Six Lanes. Four Runners. The Austin High School track, of course! Walking around the lake made me realize that about 80% of those people just don’t care about this pandemic. So I resolved myself to still be outdoors, still get some cardio in, but in a safe space. …

I know. I took a whole year off and I’m posting maybe once a month. Well, a lot has happened this year. 2020 was supposed to be super cool. I mean, come on, 2020. We all high high hopes for that number. It’s done nothing but disappoint. I left 2019…

Expectations. If I have accurate expectations, a shitty outcome can be a great outcome. I’ve always been a planner. I’ve talked about it on here before. The day after my birthday I would be planning my next year’s party. I don’t know if I planned my own birthday parties as…